Right Relationship in the 21st Century

Continuing the discussion of Right Livelihood as manifesting in a culture much more complex than what the Buddha knew, this dialogue focuses on how relationship dynamics relate to the three characteristics the Buddha emphasized, that is, impermanence, dissatisfaction and interdependence.  Modern research regarding attachment security and how levels of anxious arousal degrade a couple’s ability to negotiate conflict was explored.  We also discussed modern relational psychoanalysis as related to mutual interpersonal influence.

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Cultivating Spirituality in the 21st Century

In this dialogue, we explored the distractions that interfere with regular meditation practice, contrasted with the opportunities that are also present in our time to deeply practice and understand the liberating teachings of the Buddha.  The practice of Right Livelihood was renamed “Right Lifestyle” to reflect the increasing complexity of current culture, and that the goal of spiritual practice is living a wholesome life.

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Right Action in the 21st Century

Continuing the exploration of how to increase the relevance of Buddhist wisdom in our era, this discussion explored the relationship between the concept of kamma (karma) and action.  Emphasis was placed on using mindfulness to restrain impulsive action in order to promote behavior that cultivates kindness and compassion.  This was related to current personal, cultural and spiritual conditions.  This sets a foundation for thorough exploration of Right Livelihood in the next few talks.

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Right Listening

In reviewing the Virtue aggregate of the Eightfold Path, this week’s focus is on effective listening.  We live in a culture that doesn’t support a long attention span, which leads to poor interpersonal communication.  Using Right Speech as a guideline, ways of cultivating mindfulness for effective listening were reviewed.  Next week’s topic will be Right Speech.

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