Lezlie Laws’ Retreat Review

It is customary for our Sangha to provide the opportunity for those members who recently completed a residential retreat to talk about their experience.    It fosters the integration of the meditative experience through “thinking out loud” and responding to questions and comments from those participating in the meeting.  Lezlie recently participated in a one-week residential retreat co-led by Jack Kornfield and Tara Brach, two well-respected teachers who are also psychologists.  She describes the structure of the retreat and her significant insights regarding the Dharma during the retreat.  Several participants spoke of their gratitude for her thorough and insightful comments during the review.

Next week’s topic will begin an extensive and thorough review of the Satipatthana Sutta, the Four Foundations of Mindfulness Discourse, which is characterized as Right Mindfulness within the Noble Eightfold Path.  The topic for this meeting will focus on an expansive review of the elements of sati, translated as mindfulness, including contemporary neuropsychological research on what happens in the brain when one practices mindfulness meditation.

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The Benefits Of Perfecting Patience

Patience is the ability to train the mind to be non-reactive enough over a period of time for effective, mindful investigation to function well.  Most often, impatience is driven by urgency and attachment to an expected outcome, and is experienced as reactive impulsiveness.  During this talk, using the Four Noble Truths model, Peter suggested different focal areas that might stimulate impatience along with how the cultivation of stable, serene attention (samadhi/passadhi) through mindfulness of breathing cultivates patience.  The simple act of becoming mindful of the craving and clinging that accompanies an itch and learning to be patient with the experience of discomfort and urgency can provide the capability to be patient with other circumstances, such as being patient with a person’s behaviors or an unexpected turn of events that counter one’s plans.

During the discussion, the participants were invited to fill out a worksheet regarding how to recognize impatience and how to address the urgency of craving and clinging effectively.  The insights derived from this exercise might inspire a person using the worksheet to contemplate for a period of time how often impatience affects daily experience and how to use mindfulness and renunciation strategies during the day to cultivate patience.  Here is the worksheet:  Patience Worksheet

Here are the notes prepared for this discussion:  The Benefits Of Perfecting Patience

Next week’s meeting will involve a guest speaker, Dr. Armando Garcia, a practicing Buddhist who has written a book entitled “Buddhism And Existentialism-Not Self, Nothingness, and Being”.  Existentialism is a philosophy developed during the 20th century that emphasizes the fabricated nature of human experience and the responsibilities that emerge from that creative process.  Buddhism has strong elements of existential considerations that predate by many centuries this philosophy.  Dr. Garcia will talk about the congruence between Buddhist insights into reality and existential philosophy.

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2017 Deerhaven Retreat Review

It is customary for retreatants to have an opportunity to “think out loud” about a recent retreat experience, as this helps integrate the deep learning that can occur during such an event and provides insight and inspiration for listeners regarding the benefits of retreat experience.  There were 24 folks attending the retreat at the Deerhaven Retreat Center; 6 spoke during the evening.  During the month of March, the recorded evening talks and some guided meditations from the  retreat will be posted periodically on the site to supplement what was discussed this evening.

Please note that Peter will be attending a one month samadhi cultivating retreat at the Forest Refuge with Shaila Catherine and Sayadaw U Jagara in March.  Meetings will occur as usual, with various senior members of the Sangha and invited guest speakers attending, but they will not be recorded and posted.  He will report on his intensive retreat experience during the meeting on Wednesday, April 5.

 

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Four Applications For Spiritual Growth

This talk reviewed the progressive steps from initial establishment of stable focus and internal tranquility through to last week’s exploration of how to work with confusion.  The new aphorism involves four applications to further spiritual development: cultivating a more integrated series of self-states motivated by lovingkindness and compassion, maintaining an ongoing investigation of emerging self-states, taking corrective action when a previous life experience has produced confusion and disturbance, particularly in relationships, and actively seeking and making best use of those whose studies and practices warrant trust and respect.  This was followed by discussion of how these four applications can be developed and maintained.

Here are the notes Peter prepared for this discussion:  FOUR WAYS TO TURN POISON INTO MEDICINE

Next week’s discussion will focus on the next aphorism: “In order to take unexpected conditions as the path, immediately join whatever you meet with meditation.”  This involves learning how to remember and quickly bring the investigation of emerging self-states into daily life experience.

 

Weekend Meditation Retreat Report

It is the custom of the Orlando Insight Meditation Group to provide the opportunity for those of us who have participated in a retreat to talk about the retreat experience.  Much of what transpires in a retreat is subtle and out of conscious awareness, so talking about the experience with knowledgeable people helps to integrate what was attained in conscious awareness, thereby making the learning more accessible and useful in the future.

Peter will be on a two week self-retreat until December 26, so there will be no more dhamma dialogue postings until early January.  Our hope is that all who listen to these talks are benefitted, and that each enjoys a safe and happy holiday season.