Unwarranted Shame, Guilt, and Forgiveness

This talk is a continuation of a series of explorations of the psychological value of healthy relationships, from the perspective of psychotherapy and Buddhist mindfulness and lovingkindness practices.  When a parent’s interactions with a young child are lacking sufficient clarity, consistency and kindness, the child’s personality development is adversely affected, leading to what has been called a “shame based personality”–defensive, reactive and emotionally isolated.  The principles and practices of the Noble Eightfold Path were reviewed as ways and means for resolving internalized shame, providing forgiveness for oneself and promoting compassion for others.

The notes prepared for this presentation and discussion will be posted immediately after this posting.

Next week will begin discussion of Peter’s revisitation of lojong, the Tibetan Buddhist “Seven Point Mind Training”, with the intention to present the medieval Buddhist teachings in ways that are understandable and useful for modern American Buddhist practices.

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Buddhism And Anxiety

During this talk, Peter provided an overview of the diagnostic categories related to anxiety, describing the common characteristics and symptoms of modern psychological understanding regarding anxiety disorders, which are at an epidemic level in this culture.  This was followed by descriptions of how the cultivation of mindfulness and lovingkindness provide ways to alleviate or at least reduce anxiety.  After the descriptions, those attending asked questions or made comments about the topic.

Next week’s discussion will focus on depression and how Buddhist practices can provide a buffer against depressive episodes.

Following this post is a document containing the notes Peter prepared for this talk.  Part of the document provides a more in-depth description of significant anxiety disorders from a contemporary psychological perspective.

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Awakening With Dispassion

This talk was recorded on April 8, 2015, and is the follow-up on the talk entitled “Anapanasati And Anicca April 1 2015.  During this talk, Peter described how mindfulness of the arising and passing away of mental fabrications leads naturally to a sense of decreased “energy” or “thirst” regarding craving and clinging.  Peter also emphasized how important samadhi/passadhi (concentration/tranquility) are to “draining away:” the potency of craving.  This was followed by a lively discussion of how to cultivate dispassion.  During next week’s talk, the topic of cessation will be explored as part of the Fourth Tetrad of the Anapanasati Sutta.

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Guided Body Sweep Head Arms And Legs

This recording is associated with the previously posted .mp3 file, “Deerhaven Sixth Night Dhamma Talk”.  It was recorded during a guided body sweep meditation, and included the parts of the body mentioned in the title.  As mentioned previously, the purpose of this meditation is to support the cultivation of the seven awakening factors: mindfulness, investigation of mental phenomena, energy/ persistent Right Effort, joy, tranquility, concentration and equanimity.

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Deerhaven 2015 Sixth Night Dhamma Talk

This recording followed a guided body sweep meditation and provided an opportunity for the participants to discuss the experience and receive suggestions about their practice.  Peter emphasized that the goal of this practice is to foster the maturing of vitakka and vicara (aiming and sustaining attention) into the awakening factor of investigation of mental phenomena.  The practice also fosters the cultivation of mindfulness, persistent Right Effort, and concentration.  These factors also foster the emergence of joy, tranquility and equanimity, the remaining factors of the seven awakening factors.  This posting will be followed by the recorded body sweep meditation.

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